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If you’re new here, welcome! We’re Well-Dressed Events, a full-service planning firm rooted in NJ and NY, now officially booking in Wilmington, NC. We plan weddings, milestone celebrations, and corporate events with equal parts style and substance. Every client is paired with a dedicated lead planner from day one, so nothing slips through the cracks.
Choosing Cedar Lakes Estate means you’re making a statement: you’re not just celebrating one day—you’re creating a whole weekend of shared moments. Let’s walk through how to do a weekend wedding at Cedar Lakes Estate with ease: timeline, lodging, guest activities, weather plan, and how our team supports you through every hour.
Why Cedar Lakes Estate Works for a Weekend Wedding
Unique Landscape & Venue Options
At Cedar Lakes Estate you’ll find striking options like the mountaintop meadow, lake-front deck, the restored barn, and the Pavilion—all of which allow for ceremony, cocktail hour, reception and later-night gatherings.
Exclusive Use & Lodging
The venue offers rental of the full estate for a weekend, meaning your friends and family can stay together on-site, near the ceremony, and everyone moves through the weekend under one roof (metaphorically).
Guest Experience & Activities
This isn’t just “show up for dinner and leave”. Cedar Lakes offers lawn games, lake swims, treehouse lounges, nature trails—so your weekend isn’t a series of disjointed events, but a continuum of connection.
Planning the Weekend: Timeline, Lodging & Guest Flow
Lodging & Arrival
- Block the on-site cottages/rooms early so your guests don’t have to go off-site at odd hours.
- Recommended arrival: the afternoon/evening of Day 1 (Friday) so guests settle in, mingle and acclimate.
Welcome / Rehearsal Dinner
- Friday evening: informal welcome cocktails + rehearsal dinner (which could be in the Chef’s Garden or Pavilion).
- Use this time to set the tone: relaxed but polished.
Main Day (Ceremony + Reception)
- Saturday morning: optional brunch or activity for early-arrivals.
- Afternoon: ceremony roughly 3-4 pm, cocktail hour then reception into late evening.
- Provide clear signage and transitions so guests know what’s happening without you explaining it 20 times.
Post-Reception & Late Night
- After-party or lounge in a designated space (treehouse, pool area) for those still going.
- Set end-time based on venue policy but allow for wind-down and transportation.
Farewell Brunch & Departure
- Sunday midday: casual brunch, goodbyes, guest departures.
- The goal: make the departure feel as intentional as the arrival—not rushed, not chaotic.
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Guest Activities, Weather Planning & Our Team’s Support
Guest Activities & Flow
- Design a “free-window” schedule Friday and Sunday so guests can choose their own pace—but schedule the key shared moments (welcome dinner, ceremony, brunch) so no one’s left wandering.
- Offer optional activities: lakeside lounge, lawn games, nature walk or quiet zone.
Weather & Contingency Planning
- Outdoor ceremony? Ensure a back-up space (barn or pavilion).
- If rain impacts arrival/transition times, we build buffer windows so you’re not scrambling.
- Because Cedar Lakes is in the Hudson Valley, spring/fall weather can surprise—dress accordingly, plan accordingly.
Our Support as Your Planning Team
- We lead the weekend-of logistics: vendor arrival/load-in, menu flow, guest transitions, signage, schedule adjustments in real time.
- We act as your ambassadors to the venue team, so you stay present (not operational).
- We make the invisible appear effortless.
Ideal Timeline Sample for a 150-Guest Weekend Wedding
- Friday 4:00 pm – Guest arrivals begin; welcome cocktails on lawn
- Friday 6:00 pm – Rehearsal dinner at Chef’s Garden
- Saturday 10:00 am – Brunch or optional activity start (for early birds)
- Saturday 2:30 pm – Guest arrival/directions to ceremony site
- Saturday 3:00 pm – Ceremony begin
- Saturday 3:30-4:30 pm – Cocktail hour; couple portraits
- Saturday 5:00 pm – Reception entry; first course served
- Saturday 6:00 pm – Toasts; dinner continues
- Saturday 7:30 pm – Dancing & party begins
- Saturday 10:30/11:00 pm – After-party/lounge wind-down
- Sunday 11:00 am – Casual brunch; guest departure
Note: we adjust for your guest count, preferred start times, and vendor needs.
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Let’s Wrap It Up
A weekend wedding at Cedar Lakes Estate offers more than one fabulous night—it gives you extended time with your people in a place that feels immersive, elegant and intentionally relaxed. As your planning team, we handle the intricate choreography so you get to show up, be present and enjoy it. No Pinterest overwhelm, no “will this work?” anxiety—just a beautifully earned moment.
Whether you’re down the road or planning from a distance, we make the process feel seamless and stunning. Explore our Full Edit, Select and Capsule experiences, or [contact us here] to start a conversation with our team.
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